This month marks my three year anniversary (Matticversary) at Automattic, which means I have been solely working from home for three years now.
Working from home every day can at times feel like either, or both, the best thing in the world, or the worse thing ever invented. I personally don’t believe that full-time working from home is suitable for everyone as I’ve found it orders of magnitude more difficult than working in an office environment.
It’s taken me almost three years to really work out what works well for me as a full time “telecommuter” – and I thought I’d use my work anniversary to share some of these.
Like anything, you’re mileage my vary, but these tips have definitely helped me over the years.
- Create a morning routine: since I don’t commute I’ve found it hard to mentally separate finishing non-work time and starting work time in the morning which is something a commute provides (without you realising). Since I have a flexible schedule I make sure that in the mornings I have a routine. I am lucky enough to live right next to a beautiful forest so I go for a 4-5km walk each morning which not only provides exercise and nature exposure benefits but symbolises to my brain that work begins at the end of my morning walk. This can sometimes be hard to justify to myself as some of my colleagues are finishing up around the same time as I am walking – and I may miss checking in with them – but I definitely need this morning routine.
- Dedicate a home office space: as a family of five we live in a small cottage so it’s hard to justify a dedicated home office space in our home, but I’ve found it vital for separating my home and work lives. When I’m in the office I am working – when I am not in the office I am not working. My three children know they can’t play in my office – if I take a break to spend time with them I come out of my work space. I read in The Organized Mind book that “students who studied for an exam in the room they later took it in did better than students who studied somewhere else”. I believe this is due to the mental association.
- Dedicate a computer just to work: again this seems luxurious but having a dedicated work computer, or at least a dedicated computer profile/account, creates a good association between that computer and work. From The Organized Mind book again: “Create different desktop patterns on them so that the visual cues help to remind you, and put you in the proper place-memory context, of each computer’s domain“.
- Disable app notifications on your phone: unless I’m an in person work meetup (which happens a few times a year) I disable app notifications on my phone for work apps (like Slack, WordPress and GMail) which means I rarely check or open those apps outside of my work environment (see #2 and #3).
- Avoid checking work in bed: it’s very tempting to check on work things on my mobile phone in bed, particularly when you work for a global 24×7 365 company like I do, but this disrespects the importance of sleep in our lives. As Matthew Walker, one of the world’s leading sleep scientists says in Why We Sleep: “The silent sleep loss epidemic is the greatest public health challenge we face in the twenty-first century in developed nations. If we wish to avoid the suffocating noose of sleep neglect, the premature death it inflicts, and the sickening health it invites, a radical shift in our personal, cultural, professional and societal appreciation of sleep must occur.” You can use a morning ritual (see #1) to signify when you’ll start checking work things, instead of opening your eyes in bed and checking work immediately.
- Create an end of work day ritual: I am my most productive in the hours leading to dinner time so I use dinner time as my end of the work day ritual when I transition from working to not-working. I also have a couple of apps on my phone I like using and I don’t let myself use them during the day so I can signify at the end of the work day when I’m not working. Like a play reward that a working dog gets when they’re finishing working.
- Find social activities outside of work: working from home all the time can get very, very lonely and you can feel particularly isolated – especially working for a global company with flexible work hours, and having no team members close to your timezone. It’s important to find social activities outside of work as working in an office a lot of this is a given – even something like chatting to someone in the coffee room you won’t get working from home. I’ve tried attending Toastmasters, hiking groups and making sure I get along to meetups and user groups. Also I recommend meeting up with friends and ex-colleagues for lunches – travelling to where they work. This gives you a good break from working from home and can reduce the feeling of isolation.
- Spend some time away from home on holiday: this is one of the most expensive parts of working from home in my opinion, and it is easy to blow all the cost savings of not-commuting on holidays away from home that you need so you don’t feel like you’re at work. If you take time off and just stay at home (sometimes known as a “staycation”) I have found I don’t feel like I’ve really disconnected from work as I’m still thinking about work being home (even though I have a dedicated workplace – see #2). I’d love to work out a way to solve this one without spending more and more money on holidays away from home.
- Have something to listen to: I listen to electronic dance music mixes on Mixcloud all day long – but your tastes may vary. This provides a soundtrack for working.
- Set yourself a daily goal: I work in a Results Only Work Environment where my employer doesn’t care so much about my hours as long as I achieve results. This is both good and bad (I could write an entire post on it) but you need to be disciplined and set your set a daily goal and stick to it. Sometimes this means working longer than you planned, other times it’s important if you achieve your daily goal earlier than expected you finish earlier than expected to make up for all those other times. Otherwise you can get caught in a never-ending work loop.
- Close loops: working in a distributed work environment I find I have lots of different things on the go at any one time – this is because I might be expecting a reply or some work from someone else on something and everyone works different hours and lives in various time-zones. I find it’s important to re-visit all these “open loops” and close them, just so your mind doesn’t think about them anymore. This is sometimes a case of leaving a comment like “I didn’t hear anything back on it so I’ll close it” to close the loop – and remove it from your focus and bandwidth.
- Find tasks that you can finish to completion outside of work: most of the things I work on have a medium-to-long event horizon – or an indefinite horizon as I await asynchronous feedback – so I’ve found hobbies that I can finish completely in one attempt – gardening, cooking a meal, washing the car etc. are very important for my mental well-being as I get a good sense of accomplishment with these tasks and hobbies. See #11
- Getting things done creates motivation to do more things: when I lack motivation to start something I find the smallest thing that I can get done and complete that. The sense of accomplishment of getting something done motivates me to do more.
- Over-communicate: I can’t emphasise this enough – no one will see you in the corner of an office getting stuck on a problem – you need to constantly communicate everything you’re doing – good and bad. Communicating context creates empathy in a distributed team.
- Set expectations for family and friends: some people assume you’re not really “working” if you work from home. Setting aside a work space (#2) helps – but you’ll need to continually explain to people that even though you are at home you are actually at work.
- Don’t be afraid to ask ‘stupid’ questions: in a work from home environment there’s bound to be other people thinking the exact same thing as you – so ask away!
So much gets lost under the inner imperative never to be a bit weird.— Alain de Botton (@alaindebotton) August 3, 2017
- Don’t be afraid to be a bit weird: “Today you are you, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is youer than you” (Dr Seuss)
The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) ends up killing far more good ideas than bad ones.— Alain de Botton (@alaindebotton) September 4, 2017
That about covers it for now. As I said, working from home can be very rewarding, but it’s one of the hardest challenges I’ve ever faced, and after three years I’m still working at it!